Let’s admit it, we all have them, bad days…
There are everyday bad days, like getting a flat tire or misplacing car keys, and then there are really bad days, like losing your job, breaking up with your partner, or getting ill.
So how do you survive a bad day and turn it around? Think in short-term intervals; what can you do in the moment to lift your spirits or make yourself feel better? Not that it will change the situation, but it can lighten your mood for a few minutes.
Here are some suggestions:
Recognize that although something bad has happened, you can shift the energy and look at what you have to be grateful for.
Practice 30 minutes of laughter yoga. It’s scientifically proven that even fake laughter is as beneficial as real laughter. Your body doesn’t know the difference!
Tell someone you’re having a bad day. Sometimes just venting for a few minutes releases the crud and makes you feel better. What’s important is that after you verbalize your feelings, that you don’ linger in the negativity. Release and move on!
Everyone has bad days, helping someone else always feels good!
Play with your cat or dog. Animals love to play and it’s a wonderful way to release and have fun.
By choosing to focus on something positive, you lift yourself out of the negativity and give yourself loving kindness, which is what you really need when you’re having a bad day.
In Marrakech, Morocco, the art of ” hikayat”, or storytelling is an ancient art that has been practiced for over 1000 years. Professional storytellers will gather in the town square and tell tales of different life scenarios through fables and folklore.
We all have our own personal stories that we tell the world, and sometimes these stories are positive and sometimes they are negative. Sometimes we get stuck in playing certain roles that are not truly authentic to who we are. Our stories often begin at birth and are carried throughout our lifetime. Sometimes the roles we play include our positive traits and strengths, and other times the roles become heavy, stagnant, and conditioned over time.
Sometimes our life stories celebrate the person we are, and other times the story causes pain and suffering. Whatever your life story, you can always change it. You can create a new story of success, love, leadership, or adventure.
What story is calling out to you? Are there roles in life that you need to step into? Are there roles that are old and outdated that need to end? Our life stories will change throughout our lives and can be as diverse as we are.
What story are you telling? Is it authentic to who you really are? If you don’t feel that your life story has served you well, then its time to change your life story, one that includes your passions, your strengths, and celebrates the authentic you.